The topic today? Gifts. Today I'm going to share my personal insight about gift-giving. Feel free to share your comments below. I guess there are 2 types of gifts that I give. The unexpected gift (where the receiving party didn't even know to expect a gift) normally gets the best response, because regardless of what the gift was, the person is surprised by the thoughtfulness. It can be a small thoughtful gift, or just a fun gag gift. The second (and more difficult to choose) is the
expected gift. Very careful consideration is needed when someone is counting on receiving a gift from you. My biggest folly in the past was not even considering price, and as nice as that sounds, it can set you up for financial ruin in the months to come. The
expected gift doesn't have to be expensive, but if it's cheap, it had better be really damn
thoughtful. When my money stash is low (when isn't it?) and all I can afford are low-budget gifts, I will usually try to add meaning to the gift with a personal note, letter, card, or any other meaningful accentuation I can think up. I think the reason I normally get really stressed out about gift procurement is that I try to choose the absolute BEST gift I can that money will allow. This is probably how most people feel, but when you buy for 12 or more people, that's an awful lot of thought and consideration which can quickly become quite a daunting task. Let me elaborate a little bit... if I think of a really good gift idea, instead of going with that, I'll get too hung up on what would be
even better, and discard my original idea. This year, I started my brainstorming before Thanksgiving. That helped a lot, because instead of changing my mind 100 times before Christmas arrives, I already knew pretty much what I was getting for everyone. For new people on my Christmas list, a little research was needed, so I visited them frequently talking about things like favorite restaurants, music, movies, etc. That gets all kind of ideas going. Also, paying special attention to someone's "collections" or things they collect can make the deciding a little easier. By looking at my aunt's collection of elephants, I had some great ideas for gifts even though I may opt against an elephant-themed gift. Well, there you have it, it being my $10 about gifts, gift-giving, and research. I'm not an expert (obviously), but remember this... if the gift is something that the person
needs (i.e. toilet paper, socks, new vacuum cleaner), it probably isn't going to be a very memorable gift.